Is your eleven-year-old on track? Below are
some general development milestones to help you understand your child's
progress over the school year. Keep in mind that every child is
different and may not fit perfectly into this framework.
Where They Are
The average eleven-year-old is heading towards adolescence. He:
- Shows more self-assertion and curiosity.
- Is socially expansive and aware.
- Is physically exuberant, restless, wiggly, and talks a lot.
- Has a range and intensity of emotions.
- Is moody and easily frustrated.
- Can relate feelings.
- Is competitive, wants to excel, and may put down "out group".
- Exhibits "off-color" humor and silliness.
- Teases and tussles.
Where They're Going
School
isn't just academics. At eleven-years-old, your child is making the
transition to adolescence. You can help by encouraging her as she:
Copes with changes.
Transitions to adolescence.
Works on her interpersonal skills.
Handles peer groups/pressure.
Develops personal interests and abilities.
Takes on greater responsibility for her behavior and decisions.